Wednesday, November 17, 2010

Grateful



Thanksgiving is a week away and I've seen lots of "grateful" lists this year. Today I have been thinking..... REALLY thinking about my blessings. I have much to be grateful for so I wanted to write some of those things down today.

I'm grateful for LIFE and for the health of my family. My dear friend and neighbor gave birth to a 27 week old baby 2 days ago. I've had the opportunity to help her out by helping take care of their 3 year old while they have been in the hospital. Life is so fragile. I can't stop thinking about this precious little baby boy who is so tiny and helpless. Even though they have a long road ahead I am praying constantly for this little life, and for his worried parents. We've had health scares of our own in the past and I know that prayers are answered. I'm thankful we are healthy this year and that I can reach out and help a friend in need.

I'm grateful to be a wife. I know I always go on and on about my husband. What can I say? I'm crazy about him! He's my very best friend. He sacrifices so much for me and for our children. He loves me unconditionally even though I have many quirks. He makes me laugh so hard it hurts. I love that he is a fantastic father and provider. Nothing warms my heart like watching him playing with our boys, coaching their sports teams, or teaching them with love. Not to mention, he is VERY handsome. ☺

I'm thankful to me a mother. I'm humbled that I've been entrusted with these little men. They teach me every day. I recall a moment years and years ago when I was talking with my own mom about what her life was like when she was younger. She said, "My life didn't really begin to have meaning until I had children." I thought it was a strange comment at the time. Through the years I have come to understand what she meant. I know that my life took on a very significant and important meaning when I became a mother. It is a special and sacred experience. Not all days are pure bliss but I do love my boys.


I'm grateful to have a support system. Our extended family and friends are of utmost importance to me. I have fantastic parents. (Both through blood and through marriage) I'm blessed to know that when the storms of life beat down on us, we always have them to turn to for help and guidance. Not only that but they are FUN to be around! My boys have some pretty amazing grandparents!

 I'm grateful for siblings. I'm grateful to have a sister. Yeah..I admit I was sure mean to her back in the day! She put up with a lot of crap dealing with me. Even though I am older, I look up to her in so many ways. She is talented, beautiful and we understand each other. I also have the BEST sister in laws. We sure know how to have a good time when we are together. It's pretty amazing to have sister in laws that you love as much as your own sister. I am also grateful for brothers. I can't believe my James is going to be a married MAN by this weekend. I can hardly wait to be there to see him sealed to Sierra. We've grown very close over the last few months since we moved to Idaho Falls. I've already told James and Sierra they CAN'T EVER move away. We love having them close. I'm also grateful for my baby brother. He is the BEST uncle ever. I miss not living close to him but am ENCOURAGING him LOUDLY to attend BYUI next year so he will be closer to us. ☺

I'm SO grateful to have my Grandma EE. She is an angel on earth. She is my adventure partner and one of my very best friends. I admire her and strive to become like her each and every day.


I have INCREDIBLE friends. I think it is pretty fantastic that I still talk to and see my best friend since the day I was born on a regular basis. We grew up together even though we've lived apart for most of our lives. We would write letters to each other in elementary and were each other's bridesmaids when we got married. We call EVERY birthday and hang out every chance we get. The CRAZY thing is....we are both  AUNTS to the same kids . Such a SMALL WORLD!

 I love that I still keep in touch with my friends from the high school days and that we can still get together and DIE laughing from the ridiculous things we did and the music videos we made back in the day. I love turning back into a 16 year old when I see them and how we look around at all of these KIDS and wonder WHERE the time has gone!

 I adore my college friends. It has been fun watching them all grow up and become wives and moms. We all had to rely on one another when we ventured out into the world on our own. We made some fun and crazy memories back in the dorms and at the good old Square!  I love how we can pick up like no time has passed when we get together. I'm grateful for each of them and the examples they were and continue to be.


I'm grateful for our law school friends. Those were some really tough years for me. I felt very alone with very little babies stuck at home all day but was always thankful for the few good friends we had. It was always nice to know that we had people who knew exactly how we felt because they were going through the same crazy adventure.We have some great memories from our Spokane days.

I LOVE and MISS all of my friends in Boise. I appreciate that they call me as if I am still right around the corner. They continue to check up on me ALL the time! They have been there through the highs and lows of this past year and there are absolutely NO words to express how much I love each one of them. They have all helped me make the transition over here so much more bearable. I miss seeing them on a daily basis but know that no matter how far we may be, friends are friends no matter the distance.


 I'm grateful for the wonderful people and friends I have made over here in Idaho Falls. They have been phenominal as far as dealing with an emotional basket case goes! They have been understanding and kind when I've needed a place to vent my frustrations. They are always quick to help wherever they can. It's wonderful to know that even though we aren't living by our families anymore, we have found great friends who are willing to be our "family." I'm excited to continue to get to know the people over here.

Sheesh....I didn't think I'd be rambling on for this long! There are so many things to be grateful for but today, I'm thinking of the people I love and the joy each and every one brings to my life. If I don't have a picture of you on here.....KNOW that you're loved! I've spent 2 hours on this blog and I am SO done!

6 comments:

Em and Tom said...

Tears. You really know how to get me! I love you sooooooo much! Hey, why the heck didn't you tell me about Landon when we were on the phone? Tom and I were rolling! It reminded us of Henry stuck in the bathroom.

Jami said...

*sniff*sniff* Stac, you are an amazing person and have so many qualities that many of us strive for!!! love you!

Andrea Cutler said...

Stacy, it has been many years but I ran across your blog through Jayna Haws...she is in our ward! So fun to see your blog...LOVE the post below....always a fun conversation explaining grown up things to our inquisitive children!
Andrea Johnson Cutler

Unknown said...

Yay! For a full life & so many wonderful people. I am so blessed to be one of your peeps :)

Ash and Shane said...

Thanks Staci! I'm grateful for our friendship too! You are an amazing person! Have fun this weekend at James & Sierra's wedding. Wish I could go :( I am being induced on Monday if this little one doesn't come sooner :)

Starnes fam said...

You better let me know as SOON as that baby gets here! I would love to come by and see you on my way back up to IF!